It’s hard not to admire Airbnb’s meteoric rise: With several million guests a year and a valuation of $31 billion, the company has permanently altered the hospitality industry. But some hosts and guests have had troubling experiences. The internet abounds with horror stories of guests who have found their rented digs disgusting or dangerous. Hosts have encountered their fair share of nightmares as well, with guests using their pads to throw wild parties or even sell drugs. Broken furniture and broken systems or appliances can cost hosts thousands (unless they have a home warranty from one of these best companies). The company’s business model depends on guests behaving themselves, so how often do they really break the rules?

To find out, we asked more than 1,000 Airbnb guests and 100 hosts about how often they demonstrated or discovered objectionable behaviors. From minor frustrations to freakier infractions, we discovered how often visitors violated the rules they promised to uphold or disrespected the home in more secretive ways. If you’ve always wondered what Airbnb guests are getting away with, wonder no more.

Common Airbnb guest transgressions

Our research showed us this: Airbnb guests can be pretty obnoxious. In fact, nearly half considered quitting the platform altogether, and more than a fifth report that they have taken down their listings as a result of guest behavior. Airbnb hosts earn more than $900 a month on average, according to some estimates, so those hosts who quit the platform could be leaving more than $10K on the table every year. So we asked hosts which behaviors they found most frustrating, then polled guests to see how many were willing to admit to each offense.

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Most bothersome Airbnb guest behaviors

Thankfully, many of the most common guest infractions were also among the least offensive to hosts. For example, more than 4 in 10 guests left the air conditioner on while out for the day, but hosts consider this to be one of the more excusable pet peeves. Other relatively common annoyances included failing to fully read the check-in information, and changing arrival plans on short notice, both of which 15.2% of guests admit to. Additionally, roughly 13% of guests admitted to sneaking in extra visitors, likely because some listings require a fee for each added guest.

Breaking the house rules is the offense most hosts find most irritating, and about 8% of guests admitted they were guilty of doing so. Another 3% said they misled their hosts about how they were using the space. These percentages might seem relatively modest until you consider the scale at which such infractions take place. Three hundred million guests have stayed at Airbnbs since the company’s inception, so the number of people guilty of these behaviors could number in the tens of millions.

Hooking up in Airbnbs

Airbnb guest behaviors

One source of Airbnb host anxiety may be guests’ sexual activity. While most acknowledge their visitors aren’t observing abstinence, many may wonder just how far outside the bedroom guests may venture when it comes to sexual activity. According to our findings, more than a quarter of guests report having sex in the shower, and more than a fifth report getting down on the couch. Thankfully, trysts in food-related areas were less common. Still, 7.1% report having sex in the kitchen, perhaps an unsettling thought for hosts with culinary inclinations.

Even more unsettling, however, were our findings related to certain residues of romance: About  32% of respondents admitted to leaving sexual fluids on the sheets in an Airbnb. Roughly 64% recalled getting sexual fluids on hotel sheets, however, suggesting guests may be more considerate in this regard when staying in another person’s home. After all, hosts provide and launder all bedding themselves, and they surely don’t enjoy cleaning suspicious stains.

What guests take from Airbnbs vs. hotels

Complimentary toiletries are a staple of hotel service, and three-quarters of our respondents say they take them when they check out, but just 10% of Airbnb guests report taking toiletries upon departure, perhaps because providing shampoo and conditioner isn’t a requirement of hosting on the platform. Hosts are required to provide at least one towel per guest, but reported theft is relatively rare among those staying Airbnbs. Conversely, more than a quarter stole towels from hotels before; this kind of theft happens so often hotels account for it in their budgets.

Rates of theft were roughly even for hotels and Airbnbs in some categories, including cookware, dishware, and batteries. This parity could be attributable to the fact that Airbnb rentals often feature these items, whereas hotel rooms include them less often. The company does have a policy in place to reimburse hosts up to a million dollars for property damage, but it doesn’t cover the theft of many personal items.

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We collected survey responses from 100 Airbnb hosts and 1,029 Airbnb guests from Amazon’s Mechanical Turk. 54.8% of participants were female, and 45.2% were male. Participants ranged in age from 18 to 73 with a mean of 33.4 and a standard deviation of 9.5. Respondents who had never been an Airbnb guest were disqualified from the survey.

The data we are presenting relies on self report. There are many issues with self reported data. These issues include, but are not limited to: selective memory, telescoping, attribution, and exaggeration.

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Kristina Zagame

Kristina Zagame

Senior Staff Writer

Kristina Zagame is a journalist with a background in finance, home improvement and solar energy. She aims to simplify data and information so homeowners feel well-equipped to take on their dream home projects.

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Stephanie Horan

Data Content Manager

Stephanie Horan is a data journalist with a background in personal finance who is passionate about empowering individuals to make informed home buying and home improvement decisions. She graduated from Williams College with a degree in Mathematics. Her work has appeared across the web, being featured in publications which include CNBC, U.S. News & World Report and the New York Times.

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